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How to Lower Cortisol: What Actually Works (and What Doesn’t)
If you are searching for how to lower cortisol, understanding your nervous system matters more than chasing quick fixes. Learn what actually helps long-term stress regulation and what keeps your body stuck in survival mode.


8 Tips for Overcoming Social Anxiety
How to Empower Students to Overcome Social Anxiety that is Impacting Their Functioning Level at School Navigating social anxiety in a...


3 Simple Tools to Help With Complex Trauma Symptoms in Westchester, NY
If you’re old enough, you probably remember the way technology was not always so wireless, neatly designed, and aesthetically pleasing. You know, the labyrinth of wires from bulky devices crushed behind the deepest, heaviest TV set you’ve ever seen. And good luck if you need to get back there. It takes 4 people to help move the stand before there’s enough room for one of you to slip behind, brace yourself for the dust storm, and start pullin’ and prayin’. You pull on one of t


Navigating Life Transitions: A Guide to Thriving in College from a Therapist in Westchester, NY
Starting college or returning to school after a break can be an exciting yet daunting journey. It's a time of new beginnings, fresh opportunities, and personal growth. However, along with these positive aspects, life transitions can also bring about significant changes in mental and emotional well-being. In this article, we'll explore the impact of life transitions on college students' mental health and provide valuable tips to help ease the process and ensure a smooth transi


Why Sound is So Therapeutic in Westchester, NY
It’s common these days to hear someone preface any information they’re about to share with the fact that it’s from a study. And sometimes this is necessary to distinguish opinion from fact. So if we want to be taken seriously, we must cite our sources. Forget all of that when it comes to endorsing the healing power of music. Music is the most accessible coping skill next to breathing. Little-to-no ambiguity here. Nobody who’s ever heard music they enjoyed needs to be convince


3 Ways to Reduce Decision Fatigue & Anxiety in Westchester, NY
I’ve written before about some of the spoils of the modern world and their effects on our mental health. We trade quality nourishment for time with the foods we eat, unique memories for story posts and external validation that we do, in fact, attend events, and healthy human curiosity for instantaneous misinformation from search engines and social media. Unfortunately, we also trade decisiveness for the abundance of choice, which leads to what is known as decision fatigue. By


Why are my anxiety and depression symptoms worse after an EMDR session?
If your anxiety or depression symptoms feel worse after an EMDR session, you are not alone. EMDR therapy can activate the brain's natural healing process, which may temporarily increase emotional distress between sessions. Learn why this happens and discover 5 practical tips from an EMDR therapist in Westchester, NY to help regulate your nervous system and support healing between EMDR reprocessing sessions.


The Art of SMART: Goal Setting and Habit Stacking
Are you ever overwhelmed by all the things on your to-do list and feel like you'll never get it done? We've all been there, especially if goal setting seems overwhelming. The good news is that it doesn't have to be that way. By breaking down big goals into smaller tasks and stacking healthy habits, you can make larger strides in achieving the things that are most important to you without feeling discouraged or burned out. Let's explore how goal setting and stacking healthy ha


3 Effective Ways Widen the Window of Tolerance from an EMDR Therapist in Westchester, NY
The what, why and how of the window of tolerance & 3 ways to practice widening your window of tolerance What is the window of tolerance?...


Netflix's STUTZ: A Review from a Trauma Therapist in Scarsdale, NY
Over the last few years, actor Jonah Hill was working on a movie that is currently streaming on Netflix about his therapist, Phil Stutz....


Ancient Practices for Modern Mental Health in Westchester, NY: Fact or Fad?
One of the latest trends in mainstream society is the Ancestral Lifestyle. Its followers broadcast a simple message – to do as our early ancestors did and rise above the blanket of depression and anxiety that covers every part of the modern world. Our ignored primal instincts do in fact echo loudly in our minds in the form of negative thoughts, self-hatred, crippling anxiety, and unnecessary violence today. And based on evolutionary psychology, much of what we perceive to be


5 Mental Health Related Books for Kids
Every now and then, we need a little help explaining things to kids. Trying to change the language to kid-appropriate lingo can be hard...


“So, when are we going to start doing EMDR?”: Why EMDR is not only just about the eye movements
"So, when are we going to start doing EMDR?" I think I can speak for most EMDR therapists when I say: We get this question all the time....


6 Signs You’re an Overthinker
Overthinking is not a flaw, it is often a protective response shaped by stress and past experiences. Learn the 6 signs you’re an overthinker and how trauma-informed support can help your mind feel safer and more settled.


Anxiety Refresher: Symptoms and Coping Strategies
If you are someone who experiences anxiety (like a lot of us do), welcome! My goal for this blog post is a refresher on anxiety, its...


3 Ways to "Just Breathe."
Have you have ever been told to "just breathe" or "relax" while amidst a highly unpleasant emotional experience and found yourself becoming more agitated? Yeah, me too. Simply relaxing can be far more difficult than our peers suggest, despite the ease with which they arrived at that magical, instantly curative advice. And if you've experienced any degree of emotional invalidation throughout life, being told to breathe or to "just" do anything for that matter, only drives home


Getting Off The Hedonic Treadmill: 3 Ways to Feed Your Mind the Awareness it Needs
Have we turned into Human "Doings"? One of the ways the technological revolution has created difficulty for human beings to experience joy is by stripping away the awareness to also be human doings. Scientists have proven that instantaneous reward, tightly woven throughout society, has fundamentally shifted the machinery responsible for dopamine production and maintenance. This was demonstrated by classically conditioning subjects to expect a taste of sweet fruit juice upon t


Meditation Myths Debunked from a DBT Therapist in Westchester, NY
Mindfulness, Meditation, Yoga, Third Eye, Higher Self, Inner Self, Spirit, Soul, Healing – we see these concepts spread just about everywhere today, and not only in environments focused on health or spirituality. We no longer must visit a fitness club, yoga center, or place of worship to engage matters of the mind and body on a deeper level. Various professions offer, and even broadcast on the forefront of their brands, opportunities for cultivating a sense of wellness and r


4 Ways Journaling Can Help Your Mental Health
One thing I often suggest to my clients is buying a journal. I get mixed responses of "Okay, sure!", "I hate journaling" or "journaling...


The 3 Best Grounding Skills for Anxiety from an Anxiety Therapist in Scarsdale, NY
Grounding techniques are enormously helpful when dealing with anxiety. Grounding techniques are used to help your body and your mind...
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